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Thirthy Three Thoughts at 33!

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Life is neither short nor long, it is NOW!Time changes by the second, now it is good and now your world is just upside downPlans always fail because they are meant to fail.Having said the above, always oh! always have a Plan B! and if required a Plan C.Clothes are meant to Fit you, not the other way around.People will body shame at all sizes thus learn to ignore.Your body should be fit to house your excitement hence learn to respect and take care of it very early.People change thus status quo of relationships change ergo life situations change. Thus Learn to Adapt.If life is about getting those tick marks against the bucket List items it is also about erasing a few items so that you can live one for a bit longer.One should fall in Love at least once in their lifetime.Love, Relationships, Marriages, Divorces, Live -in, Breakups, are just between those two people not for anyone's tea time discussion. Period.Personal Space laws also apply to Chat Conversations.Adults are supposed to …

Happy Diwali 2018

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Diwali is just right around the corner hence every afternoon I see a rainfall at window as most of the Indian homes go on their annual clean-my-house-episode during this time and hence most of thet prefer washing their windows before they set up the lights and the lanterns.
You can read more about such small and largeDiwali Traditions Here
For me, Diwali is still about lots of beautiful house decor and lot, lots of diyas in the house. Not to mention the #desifashiondays where pull out my vibrant sarees and make my hubby "The Instagram Husband" :) I do not burst crackers and after becoming a mother hate them all the more.
Though I admit after becoming a mother I have also cut down on the diyas in the house just out of fright of my toddler getting attracted to them like Firefly. Decoration has gone minimal because I can imagine my little torpedo wrecking them up and in turn hurting thy self. Yet I still do some decor to lighten a corner of the house up so as to make it feel f…

My Lifestyle Motives!?

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We are almost to the end of October 2018 and within a flash, the year will also change to a new beginning. But why do we require an end and a start time frame to achieve a rhythm? We get into the banter of resolutions and then start smashing it out of schedules. Resolutions stopped working for me because it implies a routine restriction or addition which may or may not be achievable due to a variety of human excuses.



At the start of the year, we decide to start with a brand new slate but by the middle of the week, the slate is scribbled with chaos. I am no exception. During my twenties, I have done the whole resolution shebang but those were the years where I was focused on education and career building activities and it worked then. But now in my thirties, things are different.
Also, I believe that
Resolutions are born out of Regrets.
Yes, for example, you regret not paying attention to your health hence you decide to go hit the gym next year or you regret splurging too much in this…

Mommy -Talks, Things & Tricks

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My Last Post, A Note to Younger-Selfgot a decent applaud which means that the article received few interactions & few numerous clicks. It may not be much in the blogging world but it means the world to me. Thank you my reading audience for the appreciation. That says I ain't boring you guys, as yet.😌😋

I am grateful for the love but that also puts an unsaid performance pressure of getting it right every time. I am not complaining, I am just putting a point forward. We, humans, feel pressurized once we do something good/ or get something right because then the world expects perfection everytime you make an appearance. And we get smothered under 'expectations' sometimes we do succeed to make it all happen but sometimes we don't.



The same happens to, no wait...not same. The 'same' amplified exponentially happens with Mothers, especially Millennial Mothers. I am not putting down mothers of earlier eras but right now in this internet era everything and everyon…

गोष्ट एकादशीची

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लहानपणी एकादशी म्हंटली की साबुदाण्याची खिचडी, पेज किंवा वरीचा भात आणि शेंगदाण्याची चटणी एवढेच माहित होते. एकादशीचे उपवास आजी करायची त्यामुळे या पदार्थावर ताव मारण्यासाठी मी नेहमी हजर असायचो. आषाढी एकादशीच्या दिवशी आमची शाळा लवकर सुटली आणि मी आजीच्या घरी गेलो. घरात सुंदर भाजलेल्या शेंगदाण्याचा सुगंध येत होता मला कळून चुकले की आज उपवासाचे काही तरी खायला मिळणार 😋😋😋. साबुदाण्याच्या खिचडीचा बेत होता हे कळले. मी पाठीवरचे दप्तर बाजूला टाकले, आणि स्वयंपाकघरात जागा पकडून खिचडी तयार होण्याची वाट पाहू लागलो. आजी स्वयंपाक करण्यात मग्न होती आणि मी त्रास देण्यात 😈😈😈. माझा त्रास कमी व्हावा म्हणून आजीने मला विचारले एकादशीचा उपवास का करतात माहिती आहे काय? मी म्हंटले "नाही!" 😐😐😐. हे ऐकून आजी म्हणाली "शांत बस! मी तुला एकादशीची गोष्ट सांगते"....
आजी ने गोष्ट सांगायला सुरुवात केली ............................ " आपण आता कलियुगात जगतो आहोत. कलीयुगा पूर्वी सत्ययुग, त्रेतायुग, आणि द्वापारयुग होऊन गेली. सत्य युगात विष्णू देवाने ४ अवतार घेतले ते म्हणजे मत्स्य, कूर्म, वराह आणि…

थाई - थै थैयाट

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आठवड्याची सुरुवात झाली आणि रोजचा दिनक्रम चालू झाला. सकाळी लवकर उठून ट्रॅफिकला चुकवून  ऑफिस आणि संध्याकाळी ट्रॅफिकमधे अडकून घरी. मित्रांसाठी वेळ म्हणजे व्हाट्सअँपवर दिवसभर येणारे संदेश (Messages), या ग्रुप मधून त्या ग्रुप मध्ये "कॉपी-पेस्ट". ऑफिस मधे रोजच्या कामात गुंग असताना भ्रमणध्वनी कंपित झाला (Cellphone Vibrate) आणि अमेरिकेच्या मित्राचा मेसेज आला "मी ऑफिस जवळ येत आहे, खाली भेट". २००७ ते २०१० या दरम्यान आम्ही अमेरिकेत एकत्र काम करायचो आणि भाड्याने खोली घेऊन एकत्र राहायचो. मित्र अमेरिकेतून इथे आला की एक भेट नक्कीच असते आणि सगळ्या आठवणींना उजाळा मिळतो. त्या काळात बर्याच गमती-जमती केल्या. पण एक गोष्ट जी नेहमी स्मरणात राहिली, ती एका थाई हॉटेलमधल्या जेवणाची......  अमेरिकेत सुरुवातीला सगळेच नवीन त्यात बरेच लोकं गावात वाढलेले आणि शहरात नोकरीसाठी आलेले, मुद्दा असा कि शहराचा वारा न लागलेले. असो, तर गोष्ट सुरु होते अमेरिकेच्या एका छोट्या शहरात ती म्हणजे ग्रीनविल,साऊथ कॅरोलिना (Greenville ,SC, USA) येथे. आमच्या कंपनी मधून साधारण ८ ते १० लोक ग्रीनविल येथे कामानिमित्त पाठवण…

A Note for the Younger ME!

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The ME can be me, or you or even US. The ME can be me with happiness or with sadness The Me can be me, with a problem or with a solution  The ME can be me, just a day prior or someone who still doesn't exist. 





We often gaze at the ceiling in the night and let the clock run miles while surfing through memories and acts we did just out of lack of experience or out of the-sheer-spur-of-the-moment feelings, only to realize years later that we could have acted bit sensibly to our benefits.
The night turns to dawn while asking, was that a right thing to do? Could the situation be different if I had not emoted so fiercely? Grinning while answering,' does she/he still think about you?" Sighing many a time and most often not regretting a few decisions. 
The ifss and the butts keep revolving like the ceiling fan, making you question your choices.  You wake up in the morning with dark circles, throw some cold water over your face and get on with your day. You might have decided on somethi…

Soups for the Soul

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Soups are wholesome meals which work wonders towards replenishment of your body. Soup can hold maximum nutrients if done right. Actually even if not done right, add some Italian spice mix or some freshly crushed black pepper and you still be able to slurp some deliciousness and health into your guts.
Today I give you not one but three different colored soup recipes by using more or less the same ingredients but the color changes when you highlight one ingredient.  Carrot Soup: Carrot, Tomato, Broccoli, Black Peppercorns, Garlic CloveBeetroot Soup: Beetroot, Tomato, Carrots, French Beans, Broccoli, Black PeppercornsSpinach Soup: Palak, Moong Daal, Basil, Onions, Green Chilli, Garlic Clove Before I get into the recipe, Why these soups and what is so special about these soups?  All the three are targeted towards not just filling up the tummy but in fact, can boost your hemoglobin levels instantly.Each of them has one core ingredient which is rich in antioxidants.These soups are easy to ma…